We’ve been taught to fear by our parents. Our parents have been taught to fear by their parents. And thus, fear has been passed generation after generation and become one and Equal as our very nature.
Fear is covered by presenting itself as love and Caring for our loved ones. But is it so?
Is it love that limit us to the extreme of this reality or it is fear of loss – our loved ones loss?
a child is going swimming in the sea, enjoying himself, diving with the waves, doesn’t experience any fear whatsoever. The mother watches him from the shore, seas some waves and reacts/response to the pictures presentation she holds on as memories in her mind. She fears for the child.
She starts to yell and scream, she become possessed by her own fear and starts to resonant the fear from inside out. She scream to the child, hoping he will notice her, she is yelling how the sea is dangerous and he must be careful, he needs to go out immediately, he needs to be close to the shore, she is so possessed that her all expression is of fear. The child can’t even hear her cause he is far from her. (Objectively – there is no real danger) so she get irritated by him not listening to her and get more stresses because her child is still far away from her.
The child sees his mother, sees her possession and according to 1+1=2 equation – program himself that the see is dangerous. He then associates his mother expression as fear from the sea. And it is done – the child accepts the fear. Gave up on life expression and infused himself to fear.
Now – what is the origin of the mother fear? Obviously – self interest – her own fear of loss.
The mother fear her child be harmed, or she would loss him. She also knows that she will be blamed of not being responsible enough if something happened to her dearest child.
The mother, to cover up her fear of loss – justify it with Love. Though – take a look:
What if for example, in our description above – the mother would breath, walk in breath to the sea, reach to her child and explain him “cause and effect” with no energy attached, no fear, just common sense. Within doing so, she is standing up as equal as her child – teaching him the very basic common sense. Teach him to be responsible for himself. Explaining him how to practically take care of himself inside the water.
Have you ever talked with a child and explained him why it is suggested to not do the thing he desire to do in the moment?
Most parents tell their child to words “No, it’s not for you”, or “no, I don’t allow that”, instead of explaining him why it is not Suggested. What is the common sense behind the suggestion?
I've tested it! and I found that when the child is being explain the reason to not do what he wants to do, within common sense, he see the point very clear for himself and decide for himself to not participate within it.
We tend to believe that the children don’t understand life and thus they need to be limited in all ways possible to protect them. but who are we protecting then our own fear? That has been programmed inside us for generation after generation. instead of standing as equal to them and teach them within self honesty what is going on here, we programmed them to be like us – walking expression of fear.
It is time to stop and consider the origin of fear. It is time to consider our own beliefs system that is based on fear before we program our children with this uncommon sense belief system.
Lauri asked me – “would you fall if I walk away from the agreement?”
I looked within myself into what I’ve defined as ‘falling’ and answered – “No”.
We had a discussion which made me realized that I’ve not defined for myself the word “fall” and thus, I wasn’t one and equal to what I’ve been asked and answered.
I have defined the word “fall” according to an experience I had where I fall big time – where I literally crashed when a person walked away from an agreement we had.
Definitions from the dictionary -
1. move from a higher to a lower level, typically rapidly and without control
2. cease to be standing or upright; collapse
3. be captured or defeated
How would I define the word “FALL” – fall is within each and every moment I'm out of breath, where I'm allowing myself to be in the mind, in any form of energy as emotions and feelings.
I’ve attached a negative charge to the word “fall” as I’ve defined falling as wrong and standing up as right and when I’ve attempt to live those definitions, I constantly defined myself as wrong unless I'm standing up which then, I’ve allowed myself to attached a positive charge to standing up as proudeness = always living in energetically polarity.
Within this process of self realization and deprogram myself to walk as principles of equality, I would fall until I stand up in my entirety. Thus, I would not accept any form of judgment and self hatred in all those times I’ll fall.
What revealed to me when I’ve been asked this question is that I accessed fear of being presented as dependent which the common sense practical application is to test it so I would prove to myself that I won’t fall. What I'm showing here to myself is that I'm in fact dependent on this agreement, otherwise I would not access any form of fear.
This fear isn’t real as I’ve already proved to myself that I remain even when a person walk away from my life, a person that I’ve been dependent on.
So how am I able to walk this agreement without being depending on it?
1. stop future projections – which I'm already busy defusing when I catch myself participate with that
2. bring myself here within breathing
I'm actually satisfied with my application of defusing all points of dependency when they comes up. What is assisting me is writing, sharing and not allowing myself to suppress those point or disregard them or calming myself down with words.
The process of defusing all points of dependency is simple when I stick to breath.
So to answer Lauri’s question – whether I fall or not is irrelevant because I’ll determine to face whatever I face. I’ve already proved to myself that I remain so I trust myself to walk through any point, every fall, until I'm done.
Yesterday I’ve experience the consequences of my judgment towards the other which led me into a time loop where I experience myself in the same situation as the other hat I’ve judged. Within breath, I could stop and see the greater picture and thus – direct the moment effectively. Ok, so let me share-
2 days ago, a person came to me and share with me her experience of bouncing cheque where the person that wrote her the cheque changed his mind which is obviously a crime according to the law.
I was judging the person that came to me because according to my eye’s view, it wasn’t that fair to take the money in the first place. I had an idea in my mind that the person that changed his mind, did it because he needed the money. She said she is going to sue him for the money, that according to her rights, he has to give her the money.
Couple of hours later, I found out that someone did the same to me. Someone bought from me a closet last month, and I agreed to receive the money a month later. Yesterday I've realized he never plan to give me the money and the delay with the payment was just a part of a scam. when I called him, he didn’t answer so I sent him a message saying he is playing a dirty game and that I'm asking him to phone me back. he replayed with cursing words towards me and I responded that unless I see the money in 3 days, I'm going to sue him. He got mad and said he won’t give me the money and that I can take back the closet if I want.
Within myself, I was mad and frustrated, blaming myself for trusting this guy even though I knew I shouldn’t trust him. When I stop to breath, I suddenly realized that I'm inside a time loop where I'm able to get out of, if I’ll direct myself effectively.
I looked at what I'm experiencing, what information is inside my mind. I’ve seen that I'm acting exactly the same way as the person I judged the day before. To be more specific – from the same starting point.
Then everything was clear –
I let go the need to sue this guy. I saw my responsibility within it – I trusted him even though I shouldn’t have because he already proved to me that he is not trustworthy. I saw that I'm angry at myself and not at him. I placed myself inside his shoes and I saw an innocence being that is not aware that he’s programmed.
Yes, he is accountable for his action, and yes, he is abusive, but he doesn’t aware of it.
I won’t die if I won’t have this money. I still will have food on my table. Suing him would be from a starting point of wanting to teach him a lesson, from a starting point of superiority. Thus, it’s useless to sue him.
Surprisingly enough, he wrote me a message couple of hours later saying he will pay me back tomorrow.
In that stage, I already gave up the money and thus didn’t respond to this message.
If I’ll get the money or not – everything is cool cause I remain.
Where the humbleness comes in – when I realized I'm not going to sue this guy and that I'm actually can stand as an example to the person I judged the day before, I applied humbleness. When sharing with her about my realization and why I'm not going to sue him, I didn’t do it from the starting point of being Right. I didn’t want to make her change her mind. Then, I became humble – towards her and towards the guy.
Now when I’ve experienced humbleness – I can apply that with ALL as myself which is very cool.
People with no money do whatever they can to survive. This is why we are working on an Equal money system so people won’t have to do those things to another just because the need to survive. Meanwhile, we must be patient with those people, seeing their innocence within it all and apply humbleness.
Link: http://equalmoney.org/Why an Equal Money System?
It is our understanding that most of the suffering that is currently being experienced on earth is caused by human beings denying other human beings equal access to living resources. This has probably been going on since the very beginning. Though over the ages the system in which we exist has specialized in becoming ever more ruthless. The inequality and the absolute disregard for life that we’ve come to embody as a specie, is now placing us at a crossroads: will we stop and start honoring each other as equals or will we close the cycle and put an end to the human journey?
What we suggest is to have a platform established that will allow for human beings to take a break from the madness. This can be done through establishing an equal money-system, whereby every human being on earth will have a right to an equal unconditional income – from birth to death. The equal money-system would be aimed at removing fear and survival from the equation called ‘life’. This will establish a level of equality in which we can start to learn what it means to live together and how to trust each other.
Simplistically, money is the tool the system is using to perpetuate its control over human beings.
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The Pictures are then printed on Kanvas in any needed size. Ten days of silence, Vippasana, thirty women, thirty faces, thirty bodies. As the days pass, women, faces, bodies, forms become shaded. What's hiding behind the forms, who lived there, without a voice, without looking. Who hides behind the forms? What is that form I see in front of my eyes? Is this just a form?
Suddenly thirty forms are in front of me, soon turned into countless patterns of life. All were familiar faces, each one reminded me, in a way other "face form" once I knew. Innocently I thought my body, is a special one, only main and the only one similar to me are my family. After all, this is quite similar forms in relation to the amount of people on Earth. We are the one who defined ourselves according to these forms and called them "my body", "my face". But do they really who we are?
I looked at myself, and I saw a form. What a relief to discover I was wrong. Burden of years of self-image, sometimes good sometimes bad, removed from me. In One moment. My body, my face, are one and equal to me and I stop define myself based on the body or my face. The body is equal and one with me as well as equally as one with all that exists. The body is no more than a form and we are, deep down there, compressed, hiding from reality into the definitions we accepted and allowed ourselves during our lives, walking with this form, and are sure that the forms define us.
Behind these forms, deep down, there we are. But no one ever told us that.
Once were born, we grew up with these forms, together with beliefs we inherited from our family, friends, institutions, education, culture and countless influences external to us, which blind us to from the only question we never asked. "Is this really me?" Is it really I that defines my self according to the cultural, according to ideology of the state, according to religious, or in other words, according to the past or the future? Is it really I that defines the self according to polarities? Good bad, war peace, life and death, material spirituality?
How is it that no one ever told us that the only thing that exists is in this moment? Only then we can see the "reality". How is it that no one ever told us that polarity is just another "design" to make us busy and not see what we have accepted and allowed in our world?
We forgot to breathe. Just because we have been told that breath is an automatic action of the body.
Like anything else, we accepted and allowed it, and never doubt about the importance of breathing. This is why we missed the only thing that truly exists.
Breathing releases from the burden of the past and future, and show us all the thoughts, emotions, feelings, events and experiences that we have accepted and allowed ourselves, during our lives without even checking the "goods".
nothing can invade a moment in this reality as long as we are here. Remain. as life. In every moment and breathe, as one as equal.
Each breath create a new world, Inhale is the death of who we defined ourselves to become and exhale is a new self honesty starting point, of who we really are.
The noises disappears, quiet fills my head. Silence. Inhalation, exhalation. I'm here. Now, in every moment of every breath. I am here, presence, as one as equal to all that exist. life.
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Step 1:
Stop yourself with Self-Forgiveness
Step 2:
Check yourself with Self Honesty
Step 3:
Breathe through Past Patterns till they no Longer Exist
Step 4:
FIND PRACTICAL COMMON SENSE WAYS TO CO-EXIST THAT INCLUDE ALL LIFE
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